What is the actual praise behind this for a bipolar person? If we were in love before why does today should feel any different? I want to know why bipolar people have to lie in order to get rid of you in their lives. And btw I want to hear experience only. Thank you!
I have a family member with bipolar. I don't know why they do this, but I have seen it as well. I guess they are just so confused and unhappy that they can't help it. Hopefully the correct meds will help with that.
Perhaps it's because they don't feel worthy of your love. In a depressed state, I put myself down in very critical ways. I feel worthless. I know I've said things I regret, but it's just a defense mechanism. Call he/she out on it and they'll love you forever.
why do bipolar people lie
That is not a behavior exclusive to people with Bipolar Disorder, just as many peopel who do not have Bipolar lie to get out of relationships. There isn't a specific name for it when Beepers do that... anymore than there is a name for when "normal" people do it. People fall out of love also..... sucks but it happens. Do not lay this at the feet of Bipolar..... Just because someone is Bipolar does not mean that everything they do and everything they say and everything they are is from the Bipolar.
Maybe this person lied because they wanted to let you down easy...... maybe they lied because they though the lie would hurt you less than the truth..... matbe they lied because they are a liar.....
Lying isn't part of Bipolar disorder. I wawhy do bipolar people lies diagnosed with Bipolar 1 about seven yaers ago. I never felt the need to lie to anyone just to push them away. In actual fact ever since, I tried to be as honest as I can be, so that they may understand what I'm going through. And if I didn't want them in my life, I'd just tell them straight forward.
One can't just generalize because of one person. Bipolar isn't the issue here. Everyone have their reasons for lying. The problem is that this person won't be honest towards you because in their mind they believe it's better that way.
I don't what his/her reasons for lying are, but ether they're trying to save you from getting hurt, or they're just acting cowardly.
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